{"id":4125,"date":"2013-06-26T22:04:16","date_gmt":"2013-06-27T02:04:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/aws.psycho-ressources.com\/blog\/?p=4125"},"modified":"2017-05-09T15:46:56","modified_gmt":"2017-05-09T19:46:56","slug":"complexe-de-cendrillon","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.psycho-ressources.com\/blog\/complexe-de-cendrillon\/","title":{"rendered":"Le Complexe de Cendrillon : La peur de l&rsquo;ind\u00e9pendance."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[&#8230;]\u00a0 Selon Colette Dowling, une psychologue am\u00e9ricaine, les femmes ont secr\u00e8tement peur de leur ind\u00e9pendance. Elles n\u2019ont pas \u00e9t\u00e9 pr\u00e9par\u00e9es \u00e0 la libert\u00e9 mais tout au contraire elles ont \u00e9t\u00e9 pr\u00e9par\u00e9es \u00e0 la d\u00e9pendance.<\/p>\n<p>Colette Dowling dit : \u00ab On nous a pr\u00e9par\u00e9es par notre \u00e9ducation \u00e0 d\u00e9pendre d\u2019un homme et \u00e0 nous sentir nues et terrifi\u00e9es si nous en sommes d\u00e9pourvues \u00bb. Et elle ajoute : \u00ab Les femmes ont toujours la possibilit\u00e9 de tout laisser tomber et de se mettre sous la protection d\u2019un homme \u00bb.<\/p>\n<p>On constate bien souvent chez les femmes nous dit Colette Dowling l\u2019effondrement surprenant des ambitions personnelles d\u00e9s lors qu\u2019elles commencent \u00e0 partager leur existence avec un homme. Elles r\u00e9pondent alors, selon Colette Dowling, au besoin profond d\u2019\u00eatre prises en charge, attendant qu\u2019un \u00e9l\u00e9ment ext\u00e9rieur ( l\u2019homme de leur vie ) vienne transformer leur existence. C\u2019est cela le Complexe de Cendrillon.<\/p>\n<p>Sans \u00eatre atteinte d\u2019un v\u00e9ritable Complexe de Cendrillon, une femme peut souffrir d\u2019une d\u00e9pendance affective, d\u00e9s lors que sa vie sentimentale, au lieu d\u2019\u00eatre \u00e9panouissante, devient un lourd handicap \u00e0 son \u00e9volution personnelle sur tous les plans. Lorsqu\u2019elle en prend conscience, il peut \u00eatre int\u00e9ressant et utile pour elle de faire un travail de d\u00e9veloppement personnel pour mieux se r\u00e9aliser dans sa vie personnelle et mieux s\u2019\u00e9panouir dans la relation amoureuse.<\/p>\n<p>Extrait du livre de Claude Marc Aubry, Psychologue.<br \/>\n<strong><span style=\"color: #800000;\">LA RELATION AMOUREUSE DESTRUCTRICE<\/span><br \/>\nSortir de la d\u00e9pendance.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Lisez d&rsquo;autres extraits:<\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n&#8211; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.psycho-ressources.com\/bibli\/relations-amoureuses-destructrices.html\">https:\/\/www.psycho-ressources.com\/bibli\/relations-amoureuses-destructrices.html<\/a><\/p>\n<a href='http:\/\/twitter.com\/share' class='twitter-share-button' data-text='Le Complexe de Cendrillon : La peur de l&#039;ind\u00e9pendance.' data-url='https:\/\/www.psycho-ressources.com\/blog\/?p=4125' data-counturl='https:\/\/www.psycho-ressources.com\/blog\/complexe-de-cendrillon\/' data-count='horizontal' data-via='LesPSY'>Tweet<\/a>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>[&#8230;]\u00a0 Selon Colette Dowling, une psychologue am\u00e9ricaine, les femmes ont secr\u00e8tement peur de leur ind\u00e9pendance. Elles n\u2019ont pas \u00e9t\u00e9 pr\u00e9par\u00e9es \u00e0 la libert\u00e9 mais tout au contraire elles ont \u00e9t\u00e9 pr\u00e9par\u00e9es \u00e0 la d\u00e9pendance. Colette Dowling dit : \u00ab On &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.psycho-ressources.com\/blog\/complexe-de-cendrillon\/\">Continuer la lecture <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[18],"tags":[412,1764,340,89,1769,1766,1765,474,1767,1768,84],"class_list":["post-4125","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-actualites-psychologie","tag-amoureuse","tag-cemdrillon","tag-complexe","tag-couple","tag-destructeur","tag-destructrice","tag-independance","tag-peur","tag-prince-charmant","tag-princesse","tag-relation"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.psycho-ressources.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4125","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.psycho-ressources.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.psycho-ressources.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.psycho-ressources.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.psycho-ressources.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4125"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.psycho-ressources.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4125\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8626,"href":"https:\/\/www.psycho-ressources.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4125\/revisions\/8626"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.psycho-ressources.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4125"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.psycho-ressources.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4125"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.psycho-ressources.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4125"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}